A Beginner’s Guide To Buying Your First Sex Toy

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You know that feeling when you’re curious about trying something new, but that little voice in your head keeps nudging you with the most uncomfortable questions.The “if’s” and  “how’s” are something we all can’t escape.The same feeling can invade our minds when using any of the new sexual wellness products out there in the market.  What if it doesn’t feel good at all? What if I don’t know how to use it properly? 

Figuring out how to use a vibrator especially if it’s your first one, can definitely feel a bit overwhelming. But here’s the thing, using a vibrator for the first time doesn’t have to be scary. In fact, it can be an exciting and empowering way to learn more about your body. The hardest part? Just choosing the right one. Do you go for a cute little bullet vibrator, or do you take the plunge like Chappell Roan and grab a wand and rabbit combo? (even though that rabbit might look a little intimidating at first)

Why IMBesharam

So, if you’re thinking about diving into the world of vibrators and sexual wellness products, IMBesharam is a brand you must check out. This brand is all about making pleasure sexual wellness accessible and fun for you at all budget ranges, without judging your for it.

Vibrators

So, what exactly are vibrators? Think of them as personal wellness devices designed to add a little (or a lot) of extra pleasure to your self-care routine. They come in all shapes and sizes—some are tiny and discreet, perfect for travel, while others are more powerful and packed with different settings to suit your mood.

Sugarboo Blue Bae Clitoral Massager

Sugarboo Blue Bae Clitoral Massager

Sugarboo Blue Bae Clitoral Massager

3599

This compact, palm-sized massager is designed for targeted clitoral stimulation with 10 vibration modes to explore. Its silky-smooth silicone finish and ergonomic shape ensure a comfortable grip, while the whisper-quiet motor delivers powerful pleasure anytime, anywhere

Who is it for : Perfect for anyone looking to elevate their self-care routine—whether you’re a beginner or a pleasure pro.

How It Works : Place the massager against your clitoris, cycle through the 10 vibration settings, and let the sensations build to your perfect climax.

Safety And Care : Made from body-safe, medical-grade silicone, it’s easy to clean with warm water and a toy cleaner. Powered by 2 AAA batteries, it’s always ready for discreet pleasure at home or on the go.

Satisfyer 2 Next Gen Clitoral Vibrator

Satisfyer 2 Nex Gen Clitoral Vibrator

Satisfyer 2 Nex Gen Clitoral Vibrator

3499

This sleek, white-and-gold stimulator uses Air Pulse technology to deliver touch-free pleasure with 11 pressure wave intensities. Whisper-quiet yet powerful, it’s designed for discreet solo sessions anytime, anywhere.

Who’s It For : Ideal for both beginners and experienced users looking for effortless, next-level orgasms.

How It Works : Simply position the silicone tip over your clitoris, choose your desired intensity, and let the pressure waves build your pleasure

Safety And Care : Made from body-safe, medical-grade silicone, it's waterproof and easy to clean with warm water and toy cleaner. Powered by 2 AAA batteries, it’s always ready when you are!

Lovense Nora

Lovense Nora

Lovense Nora

29999

This app-controlled rabbit vibrator features a rotating head for G-spot pleasure and a vibrating arm for clitoral stimulation. Sync it with your music or let your partner take control from anywhere via the Lovense app.

Who’s It For : Ideal for those who crave dual stimulation, tech-savvy pleasure, and long-distance intimacy

How It Works : Connect the vibrator to your smartphone via Bluetooth, customize the settings, and explore different vibration and rotation modes.

Safety And Care : Made from high-quality, body-safe silicone. Waterproof and easy to clean with toy cleaner or warm water. Rechargeable and compatible with Lovense’s USB Bluetooth adapter for additional control options.


Beso G Dual Stimulation Vibrator

Beso G Dual Stimulation Vibrator

Beso G Dual Stimulation Vibrator

8999

This petite yet powerful vibrator features 10 suction and 10 vibration modes, an ergonomic finger grip for easy handling, and an adjustable G-spot arm. The warming feature enhances pleasure by gently heating the G-spot stimulator.

Who’s It For : Perfect for women who desire simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation with innovative warming technology for a more immersive experience.

How It Works : Turn on the vibrator by pressing the power button until it turns blue. For the warming function, press again until the light turns red. Explore different vibration and suction intensities to find your perfect pleasure combination.

Safety And Care : Made from body-safe silicone, IPX7 waterproof for bath-time fun, and USB magnetic rechargeable for convenience. Clean before and after use with a toy cleaner, and pair with water-based lube for enhanced comfort.


Massagers

Massagers are versatile wellness devices designed to bring relaxation, pleasure, or both to your self-care routine. Some are built for soothing muscle relief, while others focus on erogenous zones, delivering just the right amount of stimulation where you need it most. 

Rianne S Bella Wand

Rianne S Bella Wand

Rianne S Bella Wand

11999

Rianne S Bella Wand is a rechargeable, waterproof vibrator made of medical-grade silicone. It offers ten powerful vibration modes and comes with a stylish cuff bracelet featuring an empowering message.

Who’s It For :  Great for beginners and experienced users alike.

How It Works : Press the button to cycle through the ten vibration settings. The soft body and ergonomic design allow effortless pleasure. Use it on erogenous zones to experience mind-blowing orgasms.

Safety And Care : Use with a water-based lube for enhanced comfort. Clean thoroughly before and after use with an anti-bacterial toy cleaner to maintain hygiene.


Love Breeze Suction Massager

Love Breeze Suction Massager

Love Breeze Suction Massager

3999

The Satisfyer Love Breeze is a compact, rechargeable air-pulse vibrator that delivers contactless clitoral stimulation with 11 intensity levels. 

Who’s It For :Ideal for those who want a discreet, portable air-pulse vibrator for sensual clitoral stimulation, whether at home or on the go

How It Works : Place the soft silicone head around the clitoris and adjust the intensity using the intuitive control panel. Enjoy the stimulating air pulses anywhere, including in the shower or bathtub.

Safety And Care : Use with a water-based lubricant for enhanced pleasure. Clean thoroughly before and after use with warm water, mild soap, or a quality toy cleaner. Recharge easily with the included USB cable.

Sugarboo Playful Passion Wand Vibrator

Sugarboo Playful Passion Wand Vibrator

Sugarboo Playful Passion Wand Vibrator

4999

This compact yet powerful wand is designed for deep, rumbly vibrations that melt away tension and ignite pleasure. With a flexible head that curves to your contours and 10 vibration modes—including three intensities and seven pulsating patterns—it's perfect for full-body relaxation and intimate exploration.

Who’s It For: Ideal for anyone looking to add versatile stimulation to their self-care routine, whether for muscle relaxation or erogenous pleasure.

How It Works: Glide the wand over your body, cycle through the vibration settings, and let its powerful motor work its magic. The flexible head ensures precise, satisfying stimulation wherever you need it.

Safety And Care: Made from body-safe, silky-smooth silicone, this waterproof wand is perfect for steamy bath-time play. Clean with warm water and toy cleaner after each use. Powered by 2 AAA batteries, it’s always ready to go when you are!

Discreet Vibrator With Interchangeable head

Discreet  Vibrator With Interchangeable head

Discreet Vibrator With Interchangeable head

7999

This sleek and versatile vibrator is designed to switch your mood and switch your pleasure with two interchangeable heads for unique sensations. Elegant, premium, and power-packed, it delivers toe-curling stimulation.

Who’s It For?
Ideal for those who love versatility and want to explore clitoral and G-spot pleasure in one discreet, travel-friendly toy.

How It Works

Simply attach your desired head—the tongue for lick-tapping sensations or the contoured head for G-spot thrills—and explore 5 vibration patterns with 3 adjustable intensities for a completely customizable experience.

Safety And Care

Made from silky-smooth, body-safe silicone, this vibrator is 100% waterproof for bath and shower fun. Cleaning is easy with warm water and toy cleaner. It charges via USB—just 2 hours of charging for 1 hour of uninterrupted pleasure.

Butt Plugs

Butt Plus are  small, tapered toys designed for gentle and satisfying anal play. Whether you're a beginner exploring new sensations or someone experienced looking to enhance pleasure, butt plugs offer a unique kind of stimulation. They come in different shapes, sizes, and materials—some with vibrations, others with textures, and even stylish jewelled bases! Unlike other toys, butt plugs are designed to stay in place, making them perfect for solo play, and partner play.

Viben Cheeky Gunmental Butt Plug

Viben Cheeky Gunmental Butt Plug

Viben Cheeky Gunmental Butt Plug

2299

Crafted from hypoallergenic aluminum alloy, this sleek gunmetal-finished plug features a deep red heart-shaped gem for a playful yet elegant look.

Who’s it For  :Whether you’re a beginner exploring backdoor pleasure or an experienced user wanting a stylish and comfortable plug, this plug is designed to enhance your experience with a luxurious touch.

How It Works :Apply a generous amount of your favorite lubricant.Gently insert the plug at your own pace, ensuring comfort throughout the process

Safety And Care : The hypoallergenic aluminum alloy makes this plug body-safe and easy to clean

Rock Offs Bubble Plugs

Rock Offs Bubble Plugs

Rock Offs Bubble Plugs

3999

A sleek, velvety-soft anal vibrator designed for first-time users, featuring 7 vibration functions that pulse and flow through its bubble-shaped body for a thrilling build-up of pleasure. Its T-shaped base ensures comfort, safety, and added stimulation.

Who’s It For : Perfect for beginners exploring anal play, the Rocks Off Petite Sensations Bubbles Plug offers a gentle, stimulating introduction with its slim design and gradual shape.

How It Works : Start slow, applying plenty of water-based anal lube for an easy, smooth experience. Insert each bubble at your own pace and feel the rising intensity as the girth gently widens. Choose from 3 vibration speeds and 4 pulsating patterns to discover what excites you

most.

Safety And Care :Made from body-safe silicone and ABS plastic, this 100% waterproof and fully submersible plug is perfect for bath-time fun. Always clean your toy with a gentle toy cleaner after each use to keep it fresh and ready for next time. Battery included.


Easy Toy Fox Tail Plug

Easy Toy Fox Tail Plug

Easy Toy Fox Tail Plug

4799

A luxurious fox tail plug featuring a smooth, teardrop-shaped metal plug paired with a soft, fluffy tail. Designed for sensory stimulation and role play, this tail tickles your skin seductively while the weighted metal plug delivers a pleasurable, full feeling.

Who’s It For : Perfect for those who enjoy pet play or want to explore furry fantasies, the Easy Toys Fox Tail Plug No. 4 lets you embody a playful, seductive vixen for your Dom—or just for your own pleasure.

How It Works :Apply your favorite lube—since the metal plug is compatible with all lubricants—and gently insert it for a snug, satisfying fit. The flanged base ensures safe wear while the 45 cm tail adds to the fantasy, brushing against your skin as you move.

Safety And Care :Made from body-safe, polished metal, the plug is easy to clean with a toy cleaner or warm water and mild soap. Keep the tail fluffy and soft by washing, air-drying, and brushing it regularly. A pack of wipes can also help keep you feeling fresh anytime, anywhere.

Gildo Glass Butt Plug

Gildo Glass Butt Plug

Gildo Glass Butt Plug

3699

A beautifully curved glass butt plug designed to stimulate your most sensitive spots effortlessly. Crafted from body-safe, non-porous glass, it’s not only hygienic but also perfect for temperature play. 

Who’s It For? : The Gildo Glass Butt Plug is for those who love exploring new sensations and want to elevate their anal play. Whether you're a beginner looking for a gentle yet thrilling introduction or an experienced user wanting to experiment with temperature play, this plug offers intense pleasure with minimal effort

How It Works :

Temperature Play: Heat it up or cool it down for a new dimension of pleasure.

Tapered Tip & Wide Base: Ensures smooth insertion, security, and comfort.

Heavy Yet Comfortable: Adds a satisfying weight for heightened stimulation.

Safety And Care : For the best experience, pair it with a premium anal lubricant to make penetration smooth and pleasurable. After use, clean thoroughly with warm water and a quality toy cleaner to maintain its hygiene and longevity.


Smart Toys

Smart Toys  are high-tech, interactive adult toys designed to enhance pleasure through app connectivity, remote control features, AI-driven responses, and even synchronization with media or partner control. Wherever you are, however you like it—these toys take pleasure to the next level.

Lovense Lush 4 Wireless Smart Vibrator

Lovense Lush 4 Wireless Smart Vibrator

Lovense Lush 4 Wireless Smart Vibrator

39999

Think of Lush 4 as the iPhone 16 Pro Max of vibrators—sleek, powerful, and built for ultimate pleasure. It’s a smart, wearable vibrator designed to hug your body perfectly while delivering intense G-spot stimulation. 

Who’s it for :  Lush 4 is for anyone looking for hands-free, discreet, and next-level pleasure—whether you’re exploring solo play, spicing things up in a long-distance relationship. If you love deep, rumbly vibrations and high-tech features, this one’s for you!

How It Works : Using Lush 4 is easy and completely customizable. Slip it in and control the vibrations with the Lovense app, whether you’re at home, out and about, or letting a partner take charge from anywhere in the world. 

Safety And Care: To get the most out of Lush 4, always use a water-based lube for smooth, friction-free pleasure. Clean it with a toy cleaner or warm water and mild soap to keep it fresh. 

Satisfyer Mono Flex App Controlled Vibrator

Satisfyer Mono Flex App Controlled Vibrator

Satisfyer Mono Flex App Controlled Vibrator

9999

This sleek, app-controlled vibrator delivers intense dual stimulation to your G-spot and clitoris, thanks to two powerful motors working independently. With 50 vibration combos and seamless control via the Satisfyer app (available on iOS & Android), you can customize your experience anytime, anywhere.

Who’s It For : If you love deep, toe-curling pleasure, the Satisfyer Mono Flex is your new best friend. Whether you're new to vibrators or a seasoned pro, this app-controlled toy offers a personalized, hands-free experience for solo play or long-distance fun.

How It Works : Turn it on, explore pre-set vibration modes, or customize your own through the Satisfyer Connect App. The motors work independently, offering a tailored pleasure experience. Its flexible shaft adapts to your body, ensuring intense, targeted sensations for mind-blowing orgasms.

Safety And Care :For the best experience, use it with a water-based lubricant and enhance the fun with orgasm gel. Keep it clean with a toy cleaner, and you’re all set for your next pleasure session.

Lilli App Controlled Egg Vibrator

Lilli App Controlled Egg Vibrator

Lilli App Controlled Egg Vibrator

9999

Inspired by the grace of a lotus bud, the HPB Lili is more than just a love egg—it’s a sophisticated pleasure device designed for deep, rumbling vibrations. Made from soft, body-safe silicone, it features a flexible cord for comfort and powerful vibration modes that can be controlled via a remote or through the HoneyPlayBox app


Who’s It For : Perfect for those who enjoy discreet pleasure, long-distance play, or hands-free stimulation. Whether you're in a long-distance relationship or exploring solo sessions, Lili’s app-controlled technology makes it easy to personalize your pleasure anytime, anywhere.

How It Works : Simply insert, rest against your clitoris, nipples, or other erogenous zones, and select a mode. Control it with the remote or let a partner take over via the app—even from miles away

Safety And Care : Use a water-based lubricant for a smooth, comfortable experience. Clean after every use with a toy cleaner and store in a dry place. The USB charging ensures your toy is always ready when you are.

Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator

Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator

Satisfyer Little Secret Panty Vibrator

9999

The Satisfyer Little Secret is a sleek, whisper-quiet panty vibrator that delivers powerful clitoral stimulation with total discretion. Designed for all-day comfort, it clips securely to your panties with a magnetic fastener and sits perfectly against your clitoris for sensual hands-free fun

Who’s It For : Ideal for those who love on-the-go pleasure and discreet stimulation. Whether you're exploring solo play or spicing things up with a partner, this panty vibrator lets you indulge in pleasure anytime, anywhere.

How It Works : Simply fasten it inside your panties, choose a vibration setting using the remote or app, and let the Little Secret take over. 

Safety And Care : For the best experience, use a water-based lubricant for enhanced comfort. After every use, clean it with warm water and toy cleaner to keep it fresh and ready for your next adventure.

Strap On

A strap-on is a wearable sex toy that allows one partner to provide penetration using a harness that holds a dildo or vibrator in place.

Love To Love Utopia Dildo

Love To Love Utopia Dildo

Love To Love Utopia Dildo

4999

Designed by Love to Love, the Dildolls Utopia Dildo is made from high-quality liquid silicone, offering a soft, silky feel with a curved shape for comfortable and pleasurable insertion.

Who’s It For : The Dildolls Utopia Dildo is perfect for those who love a touch of fantasy in their pleasure. 

How It Works : Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to ensure smooth and comfortable insertion. The suction cup base allows for hands-free play on flat surfaces, and it’s also harness-compatible for strap-on fun. 

Safety And Care : Made from body-safe liquid silicone, the Dildolls Utopia Dildo is non-porous and easy to clean. 

Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On

Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap On

Strap On Me Multi Orgasm Bendable Strap On

20999

This versatile, strapless strap-on features 3 powerful motors for multi-orgasmic pleasure.Whether you’re using it solo or with a partner, it's flexible, body-hugging design ensures maximum comfort. With 3 vibration modes & 3 intensities, you can customize your pleasure for the perfect experience.

Who’s It For : Perfect for couples looking to explore new sensations or solo adventurers who love deep, targeted stimulation. 

How It Works : Insert the smaller end, let the flexible neck hold it securely in place, and control the sensations with the intuitive remote. Switch between vibration patterns to explore new heights of pleasure, solo or with a partner.

Safety And Care : Made from premium body-safe silicone, this strap-on is waterproof and USB rechargeable, offering up to 70 minutes of playtime on a 2-hour charge.


Sangya S-6 Strap On

Sangya S-6 Strap On

Sangya S-6 Strap On

3599

Crafted from medical-grade silicone, the Sangya S6 Strap-On is longer, wider, and uniquely shaped for deeper stimulation while remaining beginner-friendly. It features a contoured tip for precision, a firm stopper for safety, and a 6-inch usable length


Who’s It For : Perfect for beginners and experienced users looking to explore penetrative play, power dynamics, and role reversal.

How It Works : Use the S6 as a dildo for solo play or attach it to the harness for partnered fun. Pair it with a water-based lubricant and a latex barrier for safe and heightened pleasure

Safety And Care : Made from 100% medical-grade silicone, free from harmful chemicals.Wash gently with mild soap and warm water, then pat dry. Avoid boiling or using harsh cleaners. Keep in a clean, dry place, away from direct sunlight.


Easy Toy Strap On

Easy Toy Strap On

Easy Toy Strap On

8999

EasyToys Silicone Strap-On is a versatile pleasure accessory designed for exploring new sensations. Whether you're interested in anal, vaginal, G-spot, or prostate stimulation, this strap-on offers comfort, control, and excitement

Who’s It For :  Perfect for beginners and experienced users alike, this strap-on is ideal for couples looking to experiment with role reversal, power play, or simply enhance intimacy

How It Works : Secure the harness around your hips, ensuring a snug yet comfortable fit. Attach the included dildo and apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant for smooth penetration.

Safety And Care : Made from body-safe, phthalate-free silicone, the toy should be cleaned thoroughly after each use with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner


No matter how you like to explore pleasure, there’s a toy out there to make the experience even better! Whether you're flying solo or spicing things up with a partner, the key is to find what works for you. Just remember—safety first! Use the right lube, clean your toys well, and have fun discovering new sensations.